mortifying
adj 1: causing to feel shame or chagrin or vexation; "the
embarrassing moment when she found her petticoat down
around her ankles"; "it was mortifying to know he had
heard every word" [syn: {embarrassing}]
2: causing awareness of your shortcomings; "golf is a humbling
game" [syn: {demeaning}, {humbling}, {humiliating}]